Today, we begin by remembering a part of you that’s been with you since the beginning. She is the soft whisper guiding you, the gentle nudge, the sway in your hips, the warmth in your heart.
She is the part of you that knows when to say no. She is your foundation, the one who has waited patiently for your return. She is your feminine soul.
And today… is your homecoming. This is where self-worship begins through presence, tenderness, and the choice to return.
Let me tell you a little bit more about her…
The feminine soul is a living, breathing entity, a frequency within you and around you.
Look at the image above, imagine this light around your crown chakra, third eye, and heart.
For me, this represents the feminine universal intelligence that resides within and all around us.
She carries the codes for many of our qualities, energies, and attributes, such as intuition, emotions, creativity, nurturing, inner power, harmony, balance, peace, truth, compassion, empathy, and so much more.
She is within ALL humans, not just those who identify as women. As universal intelligence, she doesn’t have a gender, but in my world, I refer to the feminine soul as female because that deeply resonates with me.
She is wise and powerful.
She is a friend and a companion.
She is a healer and a teacher.
She’s a mother and a sister.
She is always for you and never against you. But many of us have turned against her.⠀
For centuries, women have been taught not to listen to and trust that soft voice within.
⠀They say…
- She’s too emotional. Too sensitive.
- She’s weak, irrational, and needs to toughen up.
- She needs to stay quiet, stay small, stay in the background.
- She’s too wild, untamed, and unpredictable; she needs to be controlled.
- Her intuition is unreliable; she should rely on reason and logic.
Because of what they’ve said, we don’t value this beautiful treasure trove of wisdom within ourselves.
- When she whispers, “You’re enough and you’ve done enough today,” we don’t listen. We just keep pushing through till exhaustion.
- When she sends up anger and sadness to alert you that something is wrong, we don’t feel it. We turn on the TV or grab a glass of wine to suppress the pain and ignore her message.
- When she says, “Tell them no, you need to rest today,” we betray ourselves and put them first.
- When she says, “Don’t eat that, it’s not good for you,” we roll down the window and place our order anyway.
- When she sends a signal to your gut that registers as “Don’t date him, he’s not good for you,” we ignore her again and give him our number anyway because he’s cute.
Even after all the times we’ve set her aside, her guidance continued and she never walked away. She’s still here waiting for you…
Not for you to be perfect. Not for you to be ready. But simply for you to notice her. To pause. To turn inward. And say, “I hear you now.” This is how you begin again. Feel free to take a breath and try this.
An invitation to go deeper and reconnect:
This is your sacred invitation to let her voice rise again. When you’re ready, press play on the Homecoming Meditation below. It’s around 2 minutes.
Place your hands on your heart. Let yourself sway. Let yourself reconnect with the part of you that’s always known the way home.